If I sang, will this be over?

If one more person asks me if I am still pregnant…

I’m going to cry.

Or polish off a quart of Breyers mint chocolate chip ice cream.

Every time I’m asked.

Anyway, the past couple of days have been a bit rough.

I went from having contractions every 10-15 minutes, to every 5 minutes. Many of them quite strong and painful.  This has happened everyday since Friday, lasting for a few hours on and off.

By the end of each day I feel like I’ve run a marathon because of the constant contractions and breathlessness.

This is definitely not how things unfolded with Babisodes four years ago.  With her, I had mild contractions for a few days, my water broke, and once I couldn’t bear the pain any longer, we swung by Panda Express on the way to the hospital so I could grab a bite to eat (since I knew they wouldn’t feed me until after she was born).

This time around, my body wants me to suffer.

I finally called my doctor today to get myself checked out, and I am a whopping two centimeters dilated.

If you are unfamiliar with the stages of labor, 2 cm’s is not a big deal. At least not for the activity that I’ve had recently.  Most hospitals admit woman when they are about 4 cm’s or if their water has broken.  A baby is delivered at 10 cm’s.

By this time during my last pregnancy, I had already been 3 cm’s for over a week (with little to no pain), and it took another week and a half before my daughter was born.

If this kid wants to cook inside for another week or so, fine.

But enough with the bluffing already.

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37.5 weeks

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64 Responses to “If I sang, will this be over?”


  1. Rachel (A Southern Fairytale)No Gravatar

    OH.. Poor Sandy!!! UGH.

    You look wonderful, though.
    Poor baby. You have my prayers and love and can’t wait to see the new bebe ;-)


  2. JameilNo Gravatar

    So close! Infantisodes! Be nice to Mommy!
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  3. DawnNo Gravatar

    Common baby, give your mommy a break and get it done! :)


  4. TimNo Gravatar

    Hang in there Sandy. It will happen soon.
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  5. Maria @ Conversations with MomsNo Gravatar

    It’s almost time. I’m so excited for you.
    Maria @ Conversations with Moms´s last blog ..The Cruise and the Plan My ComLuv Profile


  6. GennyNo Gravatar

    Hang in there! I know it’s no fun, but soon you’ll be holding that precious little bundle and hopefully being waited on by others!

    Hugs,
    Genny
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  7. JennersNo Gravatar

    Hang in there! And go with the ice cream instead of tears!
    Jenners´s last blog ..Post-It Note Tuesday: Body Pain and A Note to Seinfeld My ComLuv Profile


  8. Muthering HeightsNo Gravatar

    You poor thing!!! My pregnancies have all been like that toward the end too…NOT fun! :(

    I hope she decided to come soon! :)
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  9. AsianmommyNo Gravatar

    Good luck! Hope everything goes well.
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  10. jennyNo Gravatar

    Mint chocolate chip ice cream sounds like a great remedy, but hopefully you’ll be out of pain and holding that sweet baby soon! Absolutely gorgeous photo.
    jenny´s last blog ..WW – it’s a miracle! My ComLuv Profile


  11. Cecily RNo Gravatar

    Oh, the last few weeks are torture! Hang in there and before you know it you’ll be snuggling that baby and it will ALL be worth it.

    You still look better than I EVER did at 20 weeks. Rude.
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  12. Tara R.No Gravatar

    Braxton Hicks is a jerk… go for the ice cream.
    Tara R.´s last blog ..Those March days My ComLuv Profile


  13. LaurenNo Gravatar

    Oh that is brutal! Doesn’t this kid realize that there is competition for the title of your favorite child!
    Lauren´s last blog ..Happy 3rd Birthday! My ComLuv Profile


  14. Angela at mommy bytesNo Gravatar

    You look like you’re about to pop! Hang in there.. I had tons of contractions for both babies, but they still didn’t come out until they were good and ready.
    Angela at mommy bytes´s last blog ..WW – Tie Bosses to Walls My ComLuv Profile


  15. AliciaNo Gravatar

    She’ll be here before you know it, my friend.

    This is so exciting!
    Alicia´s last blog ..I HEART FACES-"JUMP FOR JOY" My ComLuv Profile


  16. Mama in SuburbiaNo Gravatar

    Awww…hang in there. The bright side is you look GREAT!!!
    Mama in Suburbia´s last blog ..Next thing you know, he’ll be off to college… My ComLuv Profile


  17. MarieNo Gravatar

    Sorry you are not feeling so good.

    But you do look fabulous AND go ahead and have that ice cream!!!
    Marie´s last blog ..You Too Can Have a Boring Life! My ComLuv Profile


  18. KrystynNo Gravatar

    So close. And, I can’t believe people ask you that…you look like I did at like 30 weeks! Hope the second edition figures out what to do and gets the show on the road.
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  19. CarabeeNo Gravatar

    She’s coming any day now, I can feel it. She just wants to be different from big sis.

    Keep your chin up, sweet Sandy.


  20. ElaineNo Gravatar

    Hang in there girl. I’m sorry it’s so taxing on you. Those last few weeks are just hard. I know. Hope the contractions slow down or baby comes, one or the other! :)
    Elaine´s last blog ..Happy {Laundry} List My ComLuv Profile


  21. ErinNo Gravatar

    Oh I’d go for the Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream…for sure!
    You look amazing though! Not long now…hang in there!
    Erin´s last blog ..Spring is busting out all over…. My ComLuv Profile


  22. JientjeNo Gravatar

    I delivered my baby WITHOUT contractions. Well, maybe the last hour or so, but that was it. I wish every mommy could be so lucky as I was!
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  23. NicoleNo Gravatar

    Ouch :(
    I don’t even want to imagine the pain :(
    Wishing you guys all the Best!
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  24. ceemeeNo Gravatar

    Almost now… can’t wait to see Babisodes 2.0’s first photo!
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  25. dysfunctional momNo Gravatar

    Somebody has a mind of his/her own! I just know that you’ll be posting baby pics very soon….I can feel it!


  26. bluevioletNo Gravatar

    Ok, little one….on with the show!!!
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  27. M@No Gravatar

    k, here is the perfect solution and the doing of it is nice too.

    My sister had a full body massage and went from nada to nine in a few hours. My wife went into labor about 12 hours after she had one as well.

    So have Dadisodes spring for an in house massage and pack your bags :)
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  28. DotNo Gravatar

    So sorry. Sounds like she’ll be a tough kid! :-) Get lots of rest and relaxation!


  29. If I Could EscapeNo Gravatar

    I know — it’s the most annoying part of the end of your pregnancy people asking if you’ve had that baby yet! She’ll be here soon enough.

    Now, I’m off to get some mint choc chip ice cream — my favourite! =P
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  30. MarylinNo Gravatar

    Aww honey, sounds like you’re going through the hell that is sloooow labour. I had it with Max for almost 5 weeks. Good news is that when he was induced, the second my waters broke i went properly into labour and had him within 3 hours!

    *huge hugs* I’m sending you some cyber ice cream… xxx
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  31. MBonnNo Gravatar

    I’m so sorry! I’ll definitely be saying some “get off the fence, baby!” prayers for you.

    Also, I still think you look lovely. :)
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  32. lceelNo Gravatar

    Early morning sex. Works every time.
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  33. HockeymanNo Gravatar

    Are you STILL pregnant? *wink* Enjoy your ice cream!

    This is the worst part of the whole deal I think, and the second one is always more difficult than the first it seems. Perhaps its just because a bar has been set.

    Hang in there, not much longer to go. :)
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  34. Run DMTNo Gravatar

    Look at you! You have POPPED! The last few weeks are the worst. I walked around for weeks at 4cm with both my girls. UGH! I feel ya.

    Put some Lucky Charms on that ice cream and all will be better. ;-)
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  35. The MotherNo Gravatar

    Here’s the good news–she’s cooked, so no matter what happens now, she’ll be fine.

    Not one of mine decided to come out on their own. Since we still don’t know what actually starts labor, we don’t know why.

    Hopefully, yours will.
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  36. Michelle @ one crafty mamaNo Gravatar

    I hated when people would ask me if I was still pregnant!!!
    Michelle @ one crafty mama´s last blog ..WW – Goodbye and Good Riddance! My ComLuv Profile


  37. prastiNo Gravatar

    aargh! doesn’t seem fair to have all those contractions only to be 2 cm. such a tease ;) . hopefully, things will get moving for you soon!
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  38. EmilyNo Gravatar

    I feel your pain…I never would dilate despite constant contractions! Hope things start moving along for you!
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  39. AllisonNo Gravatar

    Go ahead and eat that ice cream, you deserve it. Maybe add a few Girl Scout cookies on top?

    You look great! I always thought that people saying “you’re still pregnant” was so rude. Yes, I’m obviously still pregnant, why are you asking?
    Allison´s last blog ..Flax Seed Bread, Whole Wheat and Wheat Germ Bread My ComLuv Profile


  40. CNo Gravatar

    Awwww! You looks soooooo beautiful! Can’t believe that your little one will be arriving soon! :)
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  41. CNo Gravatar

    Ooops! I meant to say “look” and not “looks”! lol
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  42. Night Owl MamaNo Gravatar

    OH your getting so close SO Very close. Excited for you maybe next week your’ll be sharing pic’s of baby. Take it easy rest and get ready HOPE those contractions are doing some work and getting you ready for delivery


  43. CCNo Gravatar

    HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And you are the only one I know who is pregnant with a girl right now (seems to be a season of boys) so I can’t WAIT to see her beautiful little face!!!!!!!!!!!!


  44. Joyce-AnneNo Gravatar

    She’s coming…hang in there. Meanwhile, enjoy some ice cream.
    Joyce-Anne´s last blog ..Nothing good to report My ComLuv Profile


  45. skiploveyNo Gravatar

    Do you know what’s awesome? Dreyers Girl Scout ice cream. The Tagalong (chocolate peanut butter cookies in case it’s a different name on the East Coast) is ridiculously good. Ok it’s not going to make up for all the lame false labor you’ve been having but…
    I had a ton of Braxton Hicks last week and this week, not so much. Somehow I’m at 2cm with nothing much going on. I told my doctor I’m sure I’d see her next week at our normal appt. I have a feeling this one is sticking for the long haul too.
    Rest up while you can… ; )
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  46. Chronicles of MomniaNo Gravatar

    you poor thing! hang in there! btw, i love your baby belly. you look amazing!!


  47. Rachel @ Grasping for ObjectivityNo Gravatar

    “I finally called my doctor today to get myself checked out, and I am a whopping two centimeters dilated.”

    Whoever your doctor is that can do over the phone dilation checks…I totally want in on that action.

    It would seem that logically that couldn’t happen, since I live in Birmingham and you live in Boston. But if he can do over the phone dilation, maybe he can do over the phone delivery too?

    It’s that long pap smear stick that would be the worst, though.

    :)

    I hope she decides to come soon! I remember waking up EVERY MORNING prayyyyying that Ali would be born that day. Those last few weeks seem like decades….
    Rachel @ Grasping for Objectivity´s last blog ..The War On Embarrassment. My ComLuv Profile


  48. Karen MEGNo Gravatar

    Oh you’re so close Sandy- hang it there! The only thing cuter than that belly bump will be the little one that makes it disappear – I am so excited!!!
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  49. CarlenNo Gravatar

    Yay Sandy! So excited for you!
    “We’re gonna have a ba-by…
    We’re gonna have a ba-by…” (limbo dance for you — well, as good as I can manage it at 20mos preggers!)

    Can’t wait to hear the update. Hang in there, I’m praying for a healthy delivery :)


  50. JaneNo Gravatar

    Good luck! Yay for you – so close, so close! Thinking happy, wonderful thought for you and your expanding family. Sending hugs and sunshine, too!
    Jane´s last blog ..Yes, The Winner For Best Director Has A Vajayjay. Can We Please Move On? My ComLuv Profile


  51. JingleNo Gravatar

    http://jingleyanqiu.wordpress.com/2010/03/10/i-want-my-old-friends-back-awards/

    smile and be cool,
    it seems like you are having your baby within a week.
    Good luck!

    two loving awards for you.
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  52. Lisa Rae @ smacksyNo Gravatar

    Sorry it’s so uncomfortable for you.

    As always – you are beautiful!
    Lisa Rae @ smacksy´s last blog ..The Master Plan My ComLuv Profile


  53. CarrieNo Gravatar

    Yikes! That really stinks, although I am glad the baby is cooking longer. Prolonged labor can’t be fun. (I never actually went into labor with any of my babies, so I wouldn’t know a labor pain if it smacked me in the mouth.)
    Carrie´s last blog ..A fun spring day with my boys My ComLuv Profile


  54. KellyNo Gravatar

    You are the cutest pregnant mama ever!!

    SOOOO close to that due date….hang in there!!
    Kelly´s last blog ..you’re doing it wrong! My ComLuv Profile


  55. KimNo Gravatar

    It always takes longer when you’re so close to the finish line. I’ll be wishing a few more centimeters for you ;)
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  56. StéphanieNo Gravatar

    You are just beautiful and perfect !
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  57. Coal Miner's GranddaughterNo Gravatar

    I can’t say that I understand what you’re going through, because my kids were induced early due to high blood pressure, but I know you’re tired and over it. I hope your little one decides to be nice to Mama and comes soon. Crossing my fingers, hon!
    Coal Miner’s Granddaughter´s last blog ..Dairy Queens My ComLuv Profile


  58. Lisa @ Boondock RamblingsNo Gravatar

    You poor thing! Hang in there as best as you can….these contractions mean something and that is that the baby is working her way out!
    Lisa @ Boondock Ramblings´s last blog ..She’s fat, she’s smelly, but. . . she takes a good picture My ComLuv Profile


  59. TracyUNo Gravatar

    As a not yet pregnant girl, I can only think of mom’s stories of her making my father drive her around on bumpy roads to try and get my sister out. I don’t think it worked, but it made for fun dinner table conversations. :) Good luck!
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  60. angieNo Gravatar

    I guess it’s a good thing I didn’t ask when that baby was coming. :) You look so beautiful!


  61. Amy @ The Q FamilyNo Gravatar

    Hang in there!!! I will be thinking about you and singing along with you. :)
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  62. killlashandraNo Gravatar

    Eep! That does sound rough. 2cm is not enough, but at least it’s a start. :) Probably not very heartening so I’d be digging into the ice cream right about now too.
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  63. Elaine B.No Gravatar

    That is the cutest baby belly ever!
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  64. Happily Retired GalNo Gravatar

    I’m tempted to jump to the most recent post, but am trying to catch up ‘in order’ … just because. Guess all pregnancies are different.
    Hugs and blessings,
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